Four principles for lovers!

There are a number of cases that we can surely see about the fact of love – criminal, sexual, jealous, sweet, and long lasting love – in our society that has always been posted or published in different medias including below-the-line and above-the-line; that is, conferences, magazines, and especially social media like facebook, twitter, and youtube, are the sources where we can fine evidences and make comparison to see the root of those real meanings why some of those cases could be happened.

To reveal this fact, there are four principles from a gentle man named Soeng Phalla, who used to be a stock associate in Room to Read Organization, that we could use to discuss about this case. Speaking at the warehouse of Room to Read during lunch time, Mr. Soeng Phalla shared us that there four influences that all lovers should know to prevent any kinds of bad situations for their long life partnership (1) Social Influence, (2) Family influence, (3) Religion Influence, and (4) Knowledge influence.

(1) Social Influence: It is a simple yet quite easy to pile it up in our mind factor. Once we have 100-year partner in life, there will be a bit affect from social influence, so be positive with what you get or hear about your partner from social influence. Sometimes, people could just keep talking either good or bad about your partner, yet keep neutral and sound-judgment for what you hear and correct each other in case of problems made. If you are ridiculously easy to accept all of those influences, your mind will not be stable, keeping chasing you to find out the answers, and provided that you make a wrong judgment on it, your psychological doubts will make a bias judgment on your partner. Thus, contentment in family seems unhappy and will probably break the bond of love one day.  

(2) Family influence: As most of you know about Tom Teav story (If you are Khmer) and Romeo and Juliet story (it might be easy to imagine this time as the example is universal.), the biggest problems of your long life journey with your partner are relative to family influence. As the two above mentioned examples, the end of their story was death of their lives because of family gap and discrimination, so be sure your family is ready to accept your love even if they are not, let try to showcase them that you are mature enough to take care of this and will spend your life time with each other well.

Two comparable meaning of love

(3) Religion Influence: The third factor, which is also a huge problem, is about religious influence that most of us has already admitted that some religious in the world are contrarily opposite from each other, so it causes those who love each other inconvenient as there will be a greater effect of their future endeavor requiring them to face a lot of things and have to challenge it to find a good deal for their future family. It is also another psychological mindset, forcing us to view the world in the different ways with different beliefs.   

(4) Knowledge influence: Providing that you follow the news everyday about social issues, you will probably see there are quite a few cases happening in all the part of the world. Because of having low knowledge, jealous issues force someone to acidify one another, which is quite bad that such cases happened, and some other partners decide to no longer live in this planet while some suicide themselves or others. Actually, the world is quite beautiful, yet those of low knowledge view the world shortly and unproductively.

The world of contentment even family life or social life requires each and every of us to respect certain obligation from one another, especially those of 100-year partners, who will have to spend such a long time together, so only understanding, forgiving, and respecting each other is the only way that can bring a full of love and warm contentment to family life. With those four principles, you, lovers, should take it into account and explain your partner to live meaningfully in your family life.