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Friday, May 3, 2013

What has to be done next?


Departure Day at Pudong Airport

After the six-month internship mission was completed, it is time to clear some remaining works at school: presenting what has been done so far at Henkel, preparing slide presentation for conferences to the next promotions of students either in the Business School of PSE Institute itself or in preparatory class of PSE Institute to inspire them to try learning for their future faith, and then finding a job to do.
Group Photo at Toul Presh Reachea Pagoda
Having already been expected from family to be informed about my future career and others who has already prepared their lips to keep talking about me, asking what I am about to do next, and blaming at me providing that I have no job after coming back from working abroad, Shanghai, China, there is another struggling time dealing with others and family about my future career. I stayed at home for about two weeks from the day I came back, also attending a nice Khmer New Year with family at hometown to celebrate something together while still having to answer many questions from people living around.  
My sister
There are a few choices being offered for my future career after heading back from Shanghai; nevertheless, thing can't just be right and suddenly happened as what we  expected to have gotten or heard at one specific time, so what we are about to do is to wait for a good offer and information available at the right time. Since then, it is now in the process of negotiation for my future career which requires me to be a bit more patient and tolerant. While others are still looking at me and thinking what would I be in the future as now I am just at home helping family and completing some works at school, I have to be really patient with this and try to stay courageous to confront with all of those lips.  
My Friend, Seyha; and teacher, Eleonore
I have just realized that no matter how you do action or not, there are two lips that keep blaming at you every single time of your action. Provided that you do it well and got better result, those lips would say that "you are the best, on top of others", yet providing that you fail what you are doing, those lips again just blame or laugh at you, saying that "you are not capable to cope with this job". There are gossips, hear-says, and chitchats about you over time, so if you are not tolerant enough, you are about to downplay yourselves.  No matter what has been talked about us and no matter what good or bad they would say about us, it is just something that could meddle us and belittle our strength and motivation.
A photo at Toul Presh Reachea Pagoda
Once we face this kind of situation along with our daily life, we are supposed to think first before getting it into account as though it is true or not compared to our real situation we are in. If it is, take a quick action to solve this problem before it is getting bigger and bigger. If not, just free yourselves out of this annoying zone. There is no reason not to follow our heart, so just give ourselves a mean of struggling persistency to reach what we want our life to be and try what we have already thought out for our future faith as our faith it not belonging to anyone's lips. We are entitled to having enough power to use our life time to succeed what we are dreaming our life to be.

2 comments:

  1. I can only encourage you to follow your own path. Trying to put your steps in the ones of other people or trying to please everyone around you is never going to work, so at least make yourself happy as your own path is unique to you and is the most likely to lead you to your own sucess based on your personality and talent. Looking for a job and waiting for an answer is always a difficult time in life and will keep you in doubt. Others can share their views and opinion, but ultimately the key is in you.

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  2. Thanks for your encouragement. I already knew and decided to take this chance to reach my goals, so there is nothing that could meddle me not to follow my heart.

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